just wondering

something that makes me thinking.. since it's about wedding and such..

should a wedding be?

a big occasion where you can prove to people that you are so rich?

a small occasion where you are happy with your family and friends?

to just be yourself and don't bother with people who will criticize your wedding and said 'only this? i expect it to be grand.'

to just prepare and pray to God that things will be allright on that day?

to be all panicky if something turns out bad?